more "as is" and make you wiser, kinder and less confrontational. People think it will make one a wimp, but I do not think so, it makes you choose wiser choices resulting in bringing more peace and harmony in life. But it is entirely up to you and your karma level to know to be wise and gradually learn to see things "as is".
But confrontation is more often than not unproductive at least in a family setting with many undesirable regrettable events happening, you know what I mean. Just use flexibility with sincerity and in the long run you can see benefits come back to you. Good luck.